Not going well

Got this msg this morning

I am going to call and cancel the appt on Friday. I don't see any
point in going.
I know in my heart that our relationship is over. I am sorry that I
led you on the past few nights but I can't recover from the years of
lies. YEARS of lies! This is not why I got married. It isn't supposed
to hurt this bad.
I hope you had a good time looking at your all-important pictures.

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just got off the phone.. still very upset.. wants to end? wants.. doesn't know what she wants!
And it is as if I am not allowed to have any feelings in this, because I lied.. any thing I say, the response is "YEARS of lies!".. I was not happy before any of this happend.. and while I don't see the IP and my feeling related maybe they were... I dont know.. I do know I was very unhappy before.. and so was she.. and I don't think the cause of all this unhappiness was simply me looking at websites??